Week #3 Discussion: Giving Criticism

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but there is a time and a place to voice them. Not everyone can take criticism as a constructive venue for which to improve; for some it is their kryptonite. Scenarios for which criticism is acceptable or appropriate are: when judging talents or events, and when asked specifically for feedback. However, criticism does not have to be harsh. It is of more value when put in nicer terms--constructive vs. destructive. For example, if asked what you think of one's painting which you happen to not like, you can offer suggestions in which they can apply to their work to improve. This is done by pointing out a specific aspect, explaining what you don't like (nicely), then offering a solution to fix it. This helps to keep the friendly atmosphere and establish trust and respect.

My views on criticism depend on the situation and environment in which I am receiving it. Usually I can keep my composure and take each comment as constructive criticism, and nothing personal. However I am particularly sensitive about things having to do with art. I love any form of art, creativity, and self expression. I pour my heart and soul into any piece, therefore, when those subjects are put up for criticism, I feel vulnerable. It is different then being judged on the way you swing a bat, or kick a ball, it is much deeper. When being judged on an art piece, it is like I am being judged as a person, not just the product I produced. My art is an extension of me and how I think and feel, and to have it out in the open, free for anyone's ridicule and torment, is something frightening to me. However, I have worked up a front, a coping mechanism to deal with the anxiety; which all comes from experience. Throughout the process I repeat to myself over and over to stay calm, show no sign of fear, smile, nod, agree with what is being said say thank you, and most of all to remember that the comments I receive are opportunities to measure and improve on my skills. Perhaps the most important thing that I've learned is you dictate how something will affect you. You can either let it get to you and break you down. Or you can use it as fuel to better yourself.    ~~~RL